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One-on-One Meeting

Structure for effective one-on-one meetings.

Template Columns

Updates

Challenges

Goals

Feedback

Next Steps

The One-on-One Meeting template provides structure for effective one-on-one conversations between managers and team members, or between peers. This format ensures these important conversations are productive and cover all essential topics.

Regular one-on-ones are crucial for building relationships, providing feedback, and supporting team member growth. This template helps ensure these meetings are valuable for both participants.

Five Key Topics

The format covers:

  • Updates: What's been happening, current work, and progress
  • Challenges: Obstacles, blockers, or difficulties being faced
  • Goals: Current objectives, priorities, and aspirations
  • Feedback: Both giving and receiving feedback
  • Next Steps: Action items and commitments for the next meeting

This structure ensures one-on-ones are balanced—covering both operational updates and developmental conversations.

How to facilitate

One-on-One Best Practices

  • Regular schedule: Meet consistently (weekly or bi-weekly)
  • Team member leads: Let the team member drive the agenda
  • Active listening: Focus on understanding, not just responding
  • Document action items: Capture commitments and follow-ups
  • Balance topics: Don't let one topic dominate

Creating Psychological Safety

  • Start with open-ended questions
  • Avoid interrupting or jumping to solutions
  • Validate concerns and feelings
  • Ask "what do you need?" rather than assuming
  • Follow up on previous commitments

When to use this template

Perfect For

  • Manager-team member: Regular check-ins and development
  • Peer one-on-ones: Cross-functional collaboration
  • Mentorship: Structured mentor-mentee conversations
  • Performance reviews: Ongoing feedback and goal setting

Example Questions

Effective questions include:

  • "What's been your biggest win this week?"
  • "What's blocking you right now?"
  • "What do you want to focus on next?"
  • "How can I better support you?"
  • "What feedback do you have for me?"